Avoid trying to impress current chapter members by projecting a false self-image. Utilizing an honest presence can aid in the mutual selection process of formal recruitment, according to non-profit organization Alumnae Panhellenic of Tallahassee. While giving a good first impression is critical, it is important to honestly evaluate whether you can visualize yourself as a a member of the sorority.
Act professional and intelligent to leave the best impression on chapter members. Avoid using filler words, an inappropriately loud tone of voice or nervous body language. It is important to avoid sounding rehearsed when talking with chapter members as this can give an impression of insincerity.
Prevent awkward silences by asking questions of the hosting sorority member. Returning questions and engaging the hostess in conversation can give an impression of amiability. Getting to know the hostess can lend information about daily life in the chapter and aid in selecting among the sororities on campus.
Prepare to contribute to the conversation by having a few ideas of questions or topics prior to recruitment. If the conversation lags, ask the recruitment hostess about her academic aspirations or personal reasons for joining a sorority. Establishing ideas for conversation topics can alleviate nerves prior to the recruitment event.