In many states, teachers advise parents on whether to keep their child in kindergarten for a second year, and parents have the final say in the matter. If your child's teacher recommends that your child repeat kindergarten, ask for specific reasons for that recommendation. Recognize that every child develops differently; your child may reach certain milestones a little later than other pupils, and may not need to repeat kindergarten because of these differences. In addition, not every child benefits from repeating the kindergarten year. Let your child's teacher know of your concerns, and do the research necessary to make an informed decision.
If your teacher tells you that there is a chance your child will have to repeat kindergarten, ask for a full evaluation of your child to determine why the child is struggling. Request assistance from your child's teacher, the special education department in your child's school, and school administrators, suggests "Parents" magazine. A full evaluation will let you and your child's teacher better determine whether retaining your child will help her succeed, and help you make the right decision for your child's future.
For some pupils, a second year in kindergarten is not helpful, because it does not address their problems. If testing determines that your child has specific problems in one area, such as small motor skills or literacy, find out if he can move ahead to first grade but receive special support in the classroom, or during the summer before first grade begins, to address those problems. If you and your child's teachers decide that retention is the best option based on the findings of your child's evaluation, ask for your child to be given a different teacher the following year. To avoid the self-esteem issues that are often caused by retention, consider moving your child to another school if possible, "Parents" recommends.
In some states, such as California, the decision of whether to keep a child in kindergarten for a second year rests with teachers and school administrators. In these states, parents cannot refuse for their child to repeat kindergarten. Instead, they must go through an appeals process. Talk to your child's teachers early in the school year to determine as soon as possible if there is a chance your child will be retained, so that you can begin addressing any problems and have your child evaluated if necessary. Educate yourself on the rules in your school district, and begin planning early.