Remove your novice's belt, whether it be white, yellow or orange. In the martial arts tradition, a student earns his next color belt by proving he has mastered his current level of achievement and is worthy to advance. In the art of life, however, there is no sensei--martial arts mentor--to tell you that you have progressed to the next stage of your development. To be a black belt in the art of life, you must cultivate confidence in your own abilities, talents and strengths.
Open your journal and log every attribute you believe you possess. If you're a strong individual who has the ability to weather adversity and carry on despite challenges and roadblocks, write it down. Next to your best qualities, write examples of situations during which you triumphed, and give them life by recalling how each of your positive traits has advanced you in the art of life. Also note your less-than-wonderful characteristics, if only to remind yourself how they have hindered you.
Practice discipline. To be a black belt in the art of life, you need to develop the attitude of a champion. Bruce Lee was lauded not only for his adherence to a healthy lifestyle, which included exercise and nourishing food, but to his mental discipline. Formulate a plan that accommodates a regular fitness program and fresh, nutritious foods. Every day, set aside what leadership coach Robin Sharma calls a "personal leadership hour", in which to review your accomplishments and goals.
Contact the people you admire for their leadership skills, financial acumen or positive outlook, and make a date. During lunch or over a coffee, interview these elite performers in the art of life. Ask them about the strategies and habits they've adopted to get to first class. If possible, meet with them once a month to brainstorm and to share your progress. Hanging around with people who have already won their black belt in the art of life will give you the energy and enthusiasm to earn your own.