According to an article on CNN.com, money is often cited as an issue that stresses out college kids. The costs of classes, books and supplies, food, bathroom-related needs, leisure activities and dining out add up quickly. Since college is often the first time a young adult has had sole responsibility for herself, it's understandable that a budget can be overwhelming. Teach her to avoid credit card debt and focus on securing a part-time job. If possible, she should take out a personal loan from her parents on a quarter-by-quarter basis to pay all expenses with cash. Scholarships and grants are also helpful to pay down tuition.
College-age adults often don't have substantial experience in exercising self control or making safe judgement calls when it comes to having a good time. As a result, many young people go to parties and drink excessively. Some even require medical attention for alcohol poisoning. Make students aware of the repercussions of binge drinking, or drinking before they are of the legal age. Encourage kids to consider their options and weigh all consequences. Point out that heavy partying and illegal drinking can end their college experience altogether.
Another significant hurdle for many college students is learning how to be responsible for their own schedule. Time management, which includes prioritizing needs or wants plus appropriate preparation for class, are often issues that face college students. Give students a loud, obnoxious alarm clock and large calendar. Mark the calendar with class times and highlight important notes. A coffee gift card or coffeemaker for the dorm room is also helpful. Most importantly, have a frank conversation with your child pointing out the importance of doing what you say you are going to do.