Develop a relationship with the student by being a constant and reliable role model. Listen to the child's concerns and validate any feelings she is expressing. Let her know it is natural to feel the way she does. Give the student your email address or phone number so that she can contact you.
Provide student with thought-provoking questions when she comes to you with a challenge. Help her develop problem-solving skills by working through the issue on her own with guidance.
Communicate regularly with school counselor. Discuss any after-school programs or assistance available, such as free tutoring, to help the child. If parents are receptive, communicate the child's progress to them regularly.
Provide the student with color-coded folders for each class to keep assignments organized. Assist child with developing a calendar and review regularly to ensure it is up to date. The child should write down any assignments due and test dates. Ensure the student is staying abreast of her assignments and studying for tests with regular communication.
Help the child develop short- and long-term goals. Short-term goals, such as getting a good grade on a test or completing a science project early, allow the student to see immediate results. Long-term goals, such as graduating from high school or going to college, give the student an opportunity to strive for something bigger. Ask the child about career goals and provide her with resources, such as a mentor or college information.
Talk with the child about personal interests. Help her get involved in after-school activities, such as theatre or sports. After-school activities help keep kids out of trouble.
Provide positive feedback. Recognize a job well done with verbal praise.