Act friendly to everyone at the beginning of the course. Many students make the mistake of forming an alliance with the first person they encounter who seems friendly. Sometimes, this person is not what you expect, and you have cut yourself off from other groups of people. By acting friendly and being open to friendships with everyone, you give yourself more flexibility once you begin to know your peers better.
Follow your interests in the extra-curricular activities being offered. In doing so, you'll get to spend time with people whose interests coincide with yours. This means you are mixing with like-minded people and becoming involved in a positive peer group. Learn the difference between this type of a peer group and the sort that will lead you astray. Sometimes, the popular groups of kids have become influential and are prepared to behave badly toward others to stay in that position.
Listen to your instincts about peer groups. If there is a group of people that make you feel uneasy, or uncomfortable, steer clear. Watch how the members of the group treat others. Ask yourself if you want to become entangled with a group, for example, that teases or bullies weaker kids. Be prepared to stand on the outside of such a group. You show your strength by saying no, and by maintaining your
independence of spirit.
Choose a group of friends who are focused on their work. It is much easier to study hard if you are surrounded by people who also work. Some groups of students behave as though it is "uncool" to study. You do not need this sort of negative influence in your school life.