Attitude & Confidence:
* Be yourself: Don't try to be someone you're not to impress others. Authenticity is way more attractive than trying to be someone else.
* Confidence is key: Stand tall, make eye contact, and speak clearly. Even if you're nervous inside, projecting confidence will make a big difference.
* Positive attitude: A positive outlook is contagious and makes you more approachable and likable.
* Own your style: Don't worry about what others think of your clothes or interests. If you feel good in it, that shows.
* Be kind and respectful: Treating others well is always cool.
Style (but remember it's secondary to attitude):
* Find your style: Experiment with different clothing styles until you find what makes you feel good and confident. It's okay to have your own unique blend.
* Neatness counts: Wrinkled clothes and messy hair can detract from your overall look, no matter what you wear. Keep it clean and presentable.
* Accessories can add personality: A cool watch, a unique necklace, or a stylish hat can add a personal touch without being overwhelming.
* Shoes matter: Comfortable and stylish shoes can elevate your whole outfit.
* Grooming is important: Pay attention to your hygiene – showering, brushing your teeth, and keeping your hair clean and neat.
Other things that contribute to "swag":
* Hobbies and interests: Being passionate about something and being able to talk about it with enthusiasm is attractive.
* Good friends: Surrounding yourself with positive and supportive people will boost your confidence.
* Positive body language: Smiling, making eye contact, and using open body language makes you appear more approachable and confident.
What NOT to do:
* Try too hard: Being fake or trying too hard to impress people is usually transparent.
* Copy others blindly: Find inspiration but develop your own unique style.
* Be mean or disrespectful: This is never cool.
Ultimately, "swag" in middle school (or any age) is about feeling good about yourself and projecting that confidence to the world. It's about being comfortable in your own skin and expressing your individuality. Don't focus on chasing trends; focus on being the best version of yourself.