- Gather information and evidence to support your request or argument.
2. Talk To Their Peers
- Talk to your parents' peers like your siblings, cousins or friends and understand what worked and what didn't.
3. Choose The Right Time
- Choose the right place and time to talk to them. When they are well-rested, happy and relaxed.
4. Listen To Their Concerns
- Really listen to their objections and concerns.
- They want what is best for you, so try to understand their point of view.
- Ask for clarification if you don’t understand something they've said.
5. Be Honest
- Be honest about what you want and why.
- Explain your feelings and how you will benefit from what you are asking.
6. Present Your Case
- Be clear, concise, and persuasive when you present your argument.
- Use facts, logic and examples to make your case.
- Be confident in your delivery and show that believe in what you are asking.
7. Be Patient
- Don’t expect your parents to say yes right away.
- They may need some time to process what you have said.
- Be patient and persistent but not pushy.
8. Be Willing to Compromise
- Be prepared to compromise on some points.
- Show your parents that you are willing to work with them to reach a solution that works for everyone.
9. Be Positive and Respectful
- Stay positive and upbeat even if you don't get what you want.
- Respect your parents' decision, even if you disagree with it.