It's important to remember that when your child behaves well or succeeds in school, you don't have to always offer a substantial reward. This is especially true if the child typically meets expectations in both regards. However, a small treat such as taking the child out for an ice cream cone, meal or to the movies, will show her that you appreciate her hard work or proper behavior. These types of rewards don't have to be expensive, but it's important that you make clear the treat is to honor her.
If your child has had his eye on a certain material good, such as a video game, a new baseball glove or a bicycle, you can present him with this gift as a reward for his success at school or for his good behavior. This process will clearly show him that when he works hard, he will be rewarded. Larger gifts are ideal for more significant accomplishments, such as an improved report card or a long period of proper behavior at home.
Many children and teens alike are governed by rules such as curfews and other rules around the home. For example, you may only allow your child a certain amount of time on the computer or watching television each day. If you wish to reward your child, you could give her an extended curfew, perhaps up to one hour, for a couple weeks. Alternatively, allow her to spend more time on the computer or talking on the phone.
Some families may not be able to afford regular gifts every time their child succeeds in school or acts appropriately. However, you can encourage your child to keep up his progress by promising him a large present at the end of the school year. For example, instead of rewarding him with presents throughout the year, try promising him something like a family trip or significant new toy or electronic item, if he achieves a certain average on his report card.