Most public and private institutions offer extracurricular activities for boys, especially in athletics such as soccer, football, baseball, tennis or wrestling. Check with your son's school to learn more about joining a sports team. If you are a homeschooling parent, some organizations, such as the YMCA or youth groups, also offer organized sports teams for boys after school.
The Boy Scouts of America is an organization that builds character, trains boys for becoming responsible citizens and develops personal fitness. The Boy Scouts are for boys who are older than age 11, and the groups meet once a week. Scouts will be able to learn how to camp, hike and study outdoor wildlife. Scouts can earn more than 150 different awards, including rank advancement, merit badges or other individual awards. College scholarships are also available.
Since many 12-year-old boys like to be physical and active, karate is a great outlet that provides your son with intense involvement both mentally and physically. Karate also builds physical fitness, concentration, respect, self-esteem, confidence and self-discipline. Martial arts is often considered safer than most school sports.
If you are not satisfied with the extracurricular activities offered, create your own after-school activity. Host a weekly or monthly meeting for boys in the comfort of your home or community center. Plan activities such as board game night, community service projects or even your own boys' sports team.