What is meant by you have measured out your life with coffee spoons?

The line "You have measured out your life with coffee spoons" is from the poem "The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock" by T.S. Eliot. It is a meditation on the speaker's life and his sense of purposelessness and dissatisfaction. The line suggests that the speaker has wasted his life by focusing on small, meaningless details, such as measuring out coffee spoons, rather than pursuing more meaningful goals or passions. It is a metaphor for the way in which people can become trapped in their own routines and habits, and lose sight of the larger picture of their lives.