Help ease your child’s transition into preschool by giving him opportunities to interact with other children. Baby Center suggests enrolling in a special class, such as music or swimming, or scheduling play dates with a few peers. Visit parks and museums and allow your child to befriend other children at his own pace. Public libraries often have story times for young children, providing a great opportunity for your child to begin to adjust to a school-like setting with you by his side.
Even though some anxiety is normal, talking to your child about what to expect in preschool can ease many fears of the unknown. Look for books or movies that deal with starting preschool. Take advantage of open houses or other opportunities for your child to tour the classroom and meet the teacher before school begins. Getting to know the building in an informal setting with a parent by his side will help calm fears. Your child may enjoy selecting a special backpack or lunch box to take to preschool. Encouraging your child to be part of the planning for preschool gives him a sense of empowerment.
Sending your child to preschool for the first time can be an emotional decision for a parent. Visit as many preschools as it takes to find the right one for you and your child. Consider whether your child is ready to handle the responsibilities of a preschool program. Research various types of preschool programs, such as Montessori, faith-based, and day care centers, and consider partial-day and full-day options. Once you have decided on a program, take advantage of any informational sessions and ask any questions you may have.
Ask the teacher how morning transitions will be handled. Some preschools may prefer that children say goodbye at the door, while others may encourage you to accompany the child into the room. Once your child is in the room, remain calm and allow your child's teacher to begin the day. Quickly tell your child goodbye and reassure him that you will be back soon. KidsHealth warns parents to take care to not let your child see any anxiety you may be experiencing, especially if he is upset, because this will only make him more nervous. If your child is showing no resistance to the new situation, be careful that your body language does not give him a reason to be anxious.