Positive reinforcement wins out over threats and punishment every time. Break down homework into smaller tasks and offer game time as a fun reward when each task or subject is completed. For instance, if your child likes playing computer games, tell her she can play her favorite game after all of her math homework is done. Set a time limit on the reward, so that the break is not too long. When break time is over, have your child move onto the next subject of her homework, with the promise of another chance at playing her game upon the task’s completion. You can even give out tokens, like they do at popular amusement facilities, for each block of homework completed. In addition to turning the tokens in for game time, you can exchange them for small, inexpensive toys or other predetermined rewards that your child will appreciate. Sometimes, the promise of spending fun family time with your child is the best reward of all.
Show your child how to use a daily visual planner, or break down long-term homework assignments into steps with various due dates. Prioritize the more urgent tasks and put the easiest tasks at the front of the list. The more you can organize your child’s homework schedule, the less daunting the tasks will seem to him. Have your child check off each assignment as it is completed. Empower your child by emphasizing how much he’s getting accomplished and praise his organizational efforts.
For auditory learners who enjoy singing, set subjects such as math facts, multiplication tables or other memorization study to song. Buy your child one of the many educational CDs or other musical software available and have her sing along with them.
Combine math homework with snacks by creating games that include small candies, cut-up sandwiches or pizza. You can teach math concepts such as fractions or geometry by cutting shapes out of food or organizing the snacks in visually appealing patterns. It’s also easier to get through homework on a full stomach than an empty one.
Allow your child to invite a friend over to work on homework together. Make sure the kids are working at a steady pace, but allow them to play once their homework is completed. Be available to answer questions or provide help if either child gets stuck.