* Formal: His gauche behavior at the formal dinner party embarrassed his date.
* Informal: It was a bit gauche of him to ask about her salary on their first date.
* Figurative: The stark, unadorned furniture gave the room a rather gauche appearance. (Here, it refers to a lack of aesthetic grace.)
The key is to use it to describe something or someone that is socially awkward or lacking in refinement, either in behavior or appearance.