Keep the romance fresh in your relationship. Romance is one of the absolute greatest aphrodisiacs for women. Send her roses at her workplace, write her a love letter or sing her a love song even if you do not have a great voice. These little shows of affection show her you still love her. Tell her that you love her regularly, on top of the other love gestures.
Deviate from your usual character. If the first thing you do when you get home is to give her kiss, change the monotony: pick her up in your arms and swing her around then kiss her. Learn to surprise your wife with the little things that make her happy. This will make her anticipate the moment she gets to see you and work in turn to make you happy.
Help with household chores. Do not be the kind of husband who when he gets home collapses on the couch, switches on the TV and waits for his wife to cater to his every need. Once in a while, let your wife have a day off household duties without having to worry about household responsibilities. Let her go to the spa, to the salon or shopping while you take care of her duties. At times, help her with dinner, or if you are a horrible cook just keep her company in the kitchen and do little cleanups.
Appreciate your wife for all the things she does for you. Commend her at home and even in public. Make sure you notice the little things that count about her like when she has a new hairdo or dress. Tell her she is beautiful especially when she is feeling down.
Establish a marriage where there is a balance of power. Do not treat your wife like your subordinate. Likewise don't make her feel like your equal. Despite the changing times, women will always love the alpha male as compared to a man they can easily control. A woman wants to know that she has a man who will always be there to protect her and still makes her laugh when she is sad. Be her husband and her friend and she will love you all the more.