Accept that you will need help during this period. When an individual leaves supported care, local agencies are charged with helping that person develop an Independent Living Plan. This falls under the federal Independent Living Initiative 1985. Most young people who live with their families leave home in stages. They do not leave for good on a particular birthday. If you are leaving state or foster care, however, you may feel you are expected to do this, so you need to be prepared.
Develop your self-esteem with the help of your support worker. Learn to recognize your strengths and do not let yourself be held back by background events you had no control over. Your support worker will help you put your certificates of achievement together. Apply for appropriate school programs to improve your qualifications and skills.
Improve your life skills. Work on budgeting and learn how to shop sensibly. Learn about paying bills on time, perhaps by setting up bank payment arrangements. Practice managing on limited, weekly income. Develop cleaning routines and learn basic home maintenance.
Develop your social skills. This is an important part of independent living. Ask your support worker to help you role-play interview techniques, for instance. Attend assertiveness training if you feel this would improve your ability to communicate appropriately with others.