* How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
* The Charisma Myth by Olivia Fox Cabane
* The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg
* Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman
* Mindfulness by Ellen Langer
These books can help you understand yourself and others better, and they can also provide you with tips and strategies for improving your social interactions. By reading these books, you can learn how to be more empathetic, understanding, and likeable, which will help you to be less annoying to your friends.