Collections and Anthologies:
* "The Poetry of Grief and Bereavement" by David K. Randall: A comprehensive collection of poems on loss, grief, and healing.
* "The Poetry of Death" by Matthew Arnold: A classic collection exploring themes of mortality and the afterlife.
* "The Norton Anthology of Poetry" (various editions): A vast resource that includes a diverse selection of poems on various themes, including death and loss.
* "The Best Loved Poems of the English Language" edited by W. H. Auden and John Fuller: A comprehensive collection of popular English-language poems, including many suitable for funerals.
* "Poetry for the Soul: Poems for Every Occasion" by Susan Polis Schutz: A collection of uplifting and comforting poems for various life events, including grief and remembrance.
Online Resources:
* Poetry Foundation: An extensive database of poems with powerful search filters to find poems by theme, author, or style.
* PoetrySoup: A site dedicated to poetry with a dedicated section for poems about death and grief.
* All Poetry: Another comprehensive poetry database with search functionality.
* The Poetry Archive: This site features recordings of poets reading their works, which can add a moving dimension to your selection.
Other Resources:
* Funeral Homes: Many funeral homes have resources and suggestions for poems.
* Libraries and Bookstores: Local libraries and bookstores often have sections dedicated to poetry and may offer guidance.
* Your Own Personal Library: Don't forget your own bookshelves! You may have a poem that speaks to you personally and would be perfect for the occasion.
Tips for Choosing a Poem:
* Consider the deceased's personality and interests: Choose a poem that reflects their life and passions.
* Choose a poem that is meaningful to you: Sharing a poem that resonates with you can make the reading more personal.
* Keep the length in mind: A shorter poem might be more appropriate for a short service.
* Choose a poem with a positive message: Focus on the celebration of life and the enduring memories.
Remember, the most important thing is to choose a poem that speaks to you and offers comfort and solace in a time of grief.