Direct (though often clumsy) approaches:
* Teasing: This is a classic. It might be playful, even mean-spirited, but it's often a way of getting your attention.
* Accidental "bumps" or near-misses: They might find ways to be near you "accidentally."
* Showing off: They might try to impress you with their athletic abilities, knowledge, or even their (often questionable) humor.
* Direct compliments (rare but possible): A few might be brave enough to give a direct compliment, but this is less common than other behaviors.
Indirect approaches (much more common):
* Increased attention (but avoiding eye contact): They might glance at you frequently but look away quickly when you catch their eye.
* Acting differently around you: They might become unusually quiet, clumsy, or even loud and boisterous. Their normal behavior might change dramatically.
* Trying to be part of your social circle: They might hang around your friends hoping to catch your attention.
* Asking about your interests (through friends): They might ask your friends about you or what you like to do.
* Talking about themselves a lot: Sometimes, an attempt to connect involves revealing a lot about their own lives and interests.
* Being secretive and mysterious: They might act like they have something to hide, which isn't necessarily true.
* Lots of nervous energy: Fidgeting, blushing, and sweating are all signs of nervousness.
* Using social media in subtle ways: Liking your posts or stories, possibly even tagging you in things (if appropriate for their social media use).
Important Considerations:
* Age matters: 11-year-olds will behave differently than 14-year-olds.
* Personality matters: Some boys are naturally outgoing, while others are shy. Their behavior will reflect their personality.
* Don't over-analyze: Middle school is a confusing time for everyone. Some behaviors might not be related to liking you at all.
If you're unsure, the best way to know is often to try to have a normal conversation with him. See how he reacts and what he says. Remember to be kind and respectful, regardless of whether or not you feel the same way.