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How to ask a boy out when what if your in 4th grade and nine years old?

At nine years old, the best way to ask a boy out is to keep it simple and casual. Instead of using the word "date," which might feel too formal, try suggesting an activity you'd both enjoy. Here are a few options:

* Direct but friendly: "Hey [boy's name], do you want to play [game] at recess/after school/on the weekend?" (Replace "[game]" with something specific like tag, basketball, or a board game.)

* Slightly less direct (but still clear): "Hey [boy's name], I was wondering if you wanted to come over to my house to [activity] on [day]?" (Replace "[activity]" with something like play video games, draw pictures, or build with LEGOs).

* Through a friend (if you're shy): Ask a mutual friend to casually mention that you'd like to hang out with him and see if the friend can help arrange something.

Important things to remember:

* Be confident: Even if you're nervous, try to sound confident in your invitation.

* Be respectful: If he says no, that's okay! It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. Just move on and maybe try asking another friend to hang out.

* Keep it low-key: A casual hangout is much more natural at this age than a formal "date."

* Parental permission: Make sure you get permission from your parents and his parents before arranging anything.

The most important thing is to be yourself and have fun!

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