Communication is key when helping your child succeed at school. Talk to your child each day about what is going on at school. If you don't understand something the teacher is doing, whether it's a homework assignment or classroom policy, make an appointment to talk to the teacher as soon as possible. Keep the lines of communication open, and you will avoid any misunderstandings. In addition, you will know sooner rather than later when and if your child is struggling in the classroom, whether it's because of a bully or because he doesn't quite understand fractions.
Create a routine for homework, and organize a space in your house for schoolwork. Don't let your child come home from school, throw her backpack wherever, and then drift from one activity to another. Instead, make her empty her backpack as soon as she comes in from school. This way, you are sure to see any notes from the teacher or homework assignments. Set a time for homework. This could be immediately after dinner or soon after your child gets home. Use a drawer or baskets to hold homework supplies such as pens, pencils, scissors and glue so that your child can't refuse to do her homework because she forgot her markers at school. Organizing your child's time and materials is a good way to help her also organize her mind and help her succeed at school.
Be your child's cheerleader, but don't do it at the expense of the teacher or school. The best way to help your child succeed in school is to have a positive attitude about that school. If you are tempted to criticize what a teacher is doing, try to hold your tongue in front of your child, and then set a time to meet with the teacher so you can share your concerns face-to-face. Visit the classroom whenever you can, and volunteer to chaperone field trips or help out at other special events. Attend your child's concerts, plays and other performances. Show your child how important you think school is, and your child is likely to imitate your attitude.