Does anyone else think its rude for someone to go the bank and deposit money into a college students account when parents are trying control amount of spending their child has?

Yes, many people would consider it rude and inappropriate to deposit money into a college student's account without the parents' knowledge or consent, especially if the parents are actively managing their child's finances. It undermines the parents' authority and their efforts to teach financial responsibility. It could also create tension within the family and interfere with the parents' plans for their child's financial well-being. The action disrespects the established family dynamic concerning financial management.