- 2005: In This Life (ISBN 978-0976164625)
- 2006: All New F*g: Queer Pop Culture Now (ISBN 978-0976164656)
- 2007: Outing Vermont: Love, Loss, Activism, and Community in Northern New England (ISBN 978-1595582554)
- 2007: Unfaithful: Faking It, Passing and Playing the Game of True Loves in Gay America (ISBN 978-0976164687)
- 2010: Married: The Challenges of Same-Sex Marriage (ISBN 978-1595587932)
- 2014: Queer Eye for the Straight Guy: The Official Story (ISBN 978-1492605042)
- 2015: Raising Curious & Kind Kids: And Bringing Up Compassionate Grown-Ups in an Uncertain World (ISBN 978-1101907253)
- 2019: It Gets Worse: Success, Failure, Pride and Prejudice in Vermont Politics - One Queer Kid Governor's Fight to Change the World! (ISBN 978-1733046253)
Essays and op-eds:
- The Guardian
- HuffPost