The recurring theme in the provided autobiography memoir and personal essay is the author's lifelong pursuit of self-discovery, growth, and the search for personal fulfillment. Throughout the writings, the author reflects on their experiences, challenges, and triumphs as they navigate personal growth and transformations that shape their identity and understanding of the world. The theme of self-discovery is evident in their reflections on past events, relationships, and accomplishments, showcasing the author's ongoing journey to becoming the best version of themselves.